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Devotion

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Devotion

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 8 Jun 2026 • 00:00

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females (or those that like to take on this role), can relax in a friendly atmosphere socialising with like-minded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 1pm until 7pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is re

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Devotion

Dom/Sub

Social

Kink

BDSM

Devotion

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 9 Jun 2026

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females (or those that like to take on this role), can relax in a friendly atmosphere socialising with like-minded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 1pm until 7pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is re

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 9 Jun 2026 • 00:00

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Wed, 10 Jun 2026

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 12 Jun 2026 • 00:00

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 13 Jun 2026

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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Latex Devotion Summer Ball

Fetish

Latex

Weekender

Kink

Latex Devotion Summer Ball

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 14 Jun 2026 • 00:00

Here is your opportunity to attend the Latex Devotion Summer Ball. We are inviting the obedient, the yearning, and the beautifully bound to surrender to a night of fetish and elegance . Join us this summer for a full Fetish weekend in the Midlands , which will culminate with the LD Summer Ball . Team Latex will be staying at Premier Inn (with The Queen Inn and Cookhouse next door) West Bromwich Town Centre (New Square) Hotel, B70 7PU. This will be the LD designated hotel for the weekend, hope to

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 14 Jun 2026 • 00:00

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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Latex Devotion Summer Ball - to

Fetish

Latex

Weekender

Kink

Latex Devotion Summer Ball - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 14 Jun 2026

Here is your opportunity to attend the Latex Devotion Summer Ball. We are inviting the obedient, the yearning, and the beautifully bound to surrender to a night of fetish and elegance . Join us this summer for a full Fetish weekend in the Midlands , which will culminate with the LD Summer Ball . Team Latex will be staying at Premier Inn (with The Queen Inn and Cookhouse next door) West Bromwich Town Centre (New Square) Hotel, B70 7PU. This will be the LD designated hotel for the weekend, hope to

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Latex Devotion Summer Ball

Fetish

Latex

Weekender

Kink

Latex Devotion Summer Ball

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 15 Jun 2026

Here is your opportunity to attend the Latex Devotion Summer Ball. We are inviting the obedient, the yearning, and the beautifully bound to surrender to a night of fetish and elegance . Join us this summer for a full Fetish weekend in the Midlands , which will culminate with the LD Summer Ball . Team Latex will be staying at Premier Inn (with The Queen Inn and Cookhouse next door) West Bromwich Town Centre (New Square) Hotel, B70 7PU. This will be the LD designated hotel for the weekend, hope to

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 15 Jun 2026

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 27 Jun 2026 • 00:00

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 28 Jun 2026

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 28 Jun 2026 • 00:00

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 29 Jun 2026

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Summer Lovin - to

Fetish

Club Night

Summer Lovin - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 4 Jul 2026

Lets start the summer early with a special treat - Summer Lovin’. So think classic/cheesy/hero films and soundtracks ... lets travel back to the future... Will your John Travolta moves pull you a pink Lady? Will your Dirty Dancing encourage baby out of that damn corner? Have you got the hippy hippy shake? Will you raid a lost ark? Is your top gun in good working order? Let the Pretty Woman be the judge of that! Remember... the first rule of Xtasias fight club is to play hard not Die Hard and don

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Thu, 9 Jul 2026 • 00:00

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 10 Jul 2026

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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Bare Ritual to

Kink

BDSM

Dom/Sub

Party

Bare Ritual to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 12 Jul 2026 • 00:00

Description Bare Ritual is a clothing-optional BDSM event like no other. Designed to seduce the senses and awaken the spirit through erotic ritual, conscious kink, and sensual connection. This is not a play party driven by speed or spectacle, but a slow-burning experience of intention, arousal, and shared energy. Whether you’re drawn to ritual kink, sensual ceremony, erotic energy exchange, primal play, or sacred submission, Bare Ritual invites you to explore BDSM as both pleasure and practice.

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 12 Jul 2026 • 00:00

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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Bare Ritual to

Kink

BDSM

Dom/Sub

Party

Bare Ritual to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 13 Jul 2026

Description Bare Ritual is a clothing-optional BDSM event like no other. Designed to seduce the senses and awaken the spirit through erotic ritual, conscious kink, and sensual connection. This is not a play party driven by speed or spectacle, but a slow-burning experience of intention, arousal, and shared energy. Whether you’re drawn to ritual kink, sensual ceremony, erotic energy exchange, primal play, or sacred submission, Bare Ritual invites you to explore BDSM as both pleasure and practice.

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 13 Jul 2026

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 14 Jul 2026 • 00:00

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Wed, 15 Jul 2026

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Couples

Singles

Single Women Welcome

Fetish

. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 17 Jul 2026 • 00:00

We give you…Youthful Exuberance…An event putting the youth in Youthful! This is a preference night aimed at the under 40s. ALL couples and lady members welcome as usual, but expect a younger crowd.! We promise you a fun filled night with a hot friendly crowd! This night is open to Couples and Single Females Only! Xtasia offers you a nightclub feel with the no pressure naughtiness thrown in…what more can you want? We can promise you a place to dance, socialise and flirt as well as lots of play ro

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. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Couples

Singles

Single Women Welcome

Fetish

. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 18 Jul 2026

We give you…Youthful Exuberance…An event putting the youth in Youthful! This is a preference night aimed at the under 40s. ALL couples and lady members welcome as usual, but expect a younger crowd.! We promise you a fun filled night with a hot friendly crowd! This night is open to Couples and Single Females Only! Xtasia offers you a nightclub feel with the no pressure naughtiness thrown in…what more can you want? We can promise you a place to dance, socialise and flirt as well as lots of play ro

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 27 Jul 2026 • 00:00

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 28 Jul 2026

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 28 Jul 2026 • 00:00

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Wed, 29 Jul 2026

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Foam Party - to

Fetish

Nudist

Trans Friendly

Social

Foam Party - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 1 Aug 2026

Normal club evening to start with, grab a drink, socialise and feel the excitement build ready for 11pm when the transformed dance floor will be filled with waist high silky smooth bubbles. Set free your inner wild child and jump in naked or semi naked for some of the most exotic fun possible. Not sure if going in the foam is for you? You are still welcome to come along and enjoy the night with everyone without having to go in so don’t worry. Please can you bring your own towels on the night to

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Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Bi

Kink

BDSM

Social

Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 2 Aug 2026 • 00:00

Welcome to the Birmingham D/s Munch (BDsM) We want to help connect the D/s community in the West Midlands and beyond. We're hoping to create a space to share experiences, learn from each other, and socialise with like-minded kinksters. We'll have a suggested discussion theme at each event, to help start conversation and invite group reflection - we really want to hear how other people do D/s! This is not a play event - you're welcome to express your dynamic through protocol, collars etc, but kee

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Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Bi

Kink

BDSM

Social

Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 3 Aug 2026

Welcome to the Birmingham D/s Munch (BDsM) We want to help connect the D/s community in the West Midlands and beyond. We're hoping to create a space to share experiences, learn from each other, and socialise with like-minded kinksters. We'll have a suggested discussion theme at each event, to help start conversation and invite group reflection - we really want to hear how other people do D/s! This is not a play event - you're welcome to express your dynamic through protocol, collars etc, but kee

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Shamed

Cuckold

Voyeur

Club Night

Shamed

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 3 Aug 2026 • 00:00

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 SHAMED is the ultimate filthy sexy event experience. whether you love degradation and Humiliation or just voyeuristic dirty sex. We have seen a lot at this event! SHAMED gives you a place to be who you want to be without worrying about those around you. Why? because those around you are there for the same reason. If you like spit play, Watersports, Bukkake, cuckolding, verbal humiliation, group sex, public masturbation drinking tea with a parsnip up your arse or just talking

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Shamed

Cuckold

Voyeur

Club Night

Shamed

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 4 Aug 2026

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 SHAMED is the ultimate filthy sexy event experience. whether you love degradation and Humiliation or just voyeuristic dirty sex. We have seen a lot at this event! SHAMED gives you a place to be who you want to be without worrying about those around you. Why? because those around you are there for the same reason. If you like spit play, Watersports, Bukkake, cuckolding, verbal humiliation, group sex, public masturbation drinking tea with a parsnip up your arse or just talking

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 9 Aug 2026 • 00:00

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 10 Aug 2026

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Wed, 12 Aug 2026 • 00:00

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Thu, 13 Aug 2026

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 14 Aug 2026 • 00:00

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 15 Aug 2026

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Thu, 27 Aug 2026 • 00:00

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 28 Aug 2026

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 28 Aug 2026 • 00:00

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 29 Aug 2026

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Devotion

Dom/Sub

Social

Kink

BDSM

Devotion

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 6 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females (or those that like to take on this role), can relax in a friendly atmosphere socialising with like-minded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 1pm until 7pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is re

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Devotion - to

Dom/Sub

Social

Kink

BDSM

Devotion - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 6 Sept 2026

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females (or those that like to take on this role), can relax in a friendly atmosphere socialising with like-minded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 1pm until 7pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is re

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Devotion

Dom/Sub

Social

Kink

BDSM

Devotion

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 7 Sept 2026

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females (or those that like to take on this role), can relax in a friendly atmosphere socialising with like-minded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 1pm until 7pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is re

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Devotion

Dom/Sub

Social

Kink

BDSM

Devotion

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 8 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females (or those that like to take on this role), can relax in a friendly atmosphere socialising with like-minded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 1pm until 7pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is re

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Devotion

Dom/Sub

Social

Kink

BDSM

Devotion

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Wed, 9 Sept 2026

Devotion is a femdom event with the emphasis being on D/s protocol and etiquette. This is a place where Dominant Females (or those that like to take on this role), can relax in a friendly atmosphere socialising with like-minded ladies whilst being looked after and waited on by submissives and sissy maids. Devotion will run on the second Sunday from 1pm until 7pm. See event listing for actual dates. It is hoped that by limiting Devotion to just four times a year we can make it an event that is re

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Wed, 9 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Club Night

Flirts - Sweet and Naughty - to .

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Thu, 10 Sept 2026

Sweet & Naughty – Monday, 9th March 2026 | 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM | £5 entry (£15 with spa) | Flirt's @Xtasia Indulge your sweet and naughty sides with cupcakes, playrooms, and a decadent optional spa experience. Mix, mingle, or explore the dungeon at your own pace in a relaxed, consent-focused environment.

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Flirts - Kinkfest Reception

Fetish

Kink

Festival

Club Night

Flirts - Kinkfest Reception

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 11 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Evening set aside in Flirts for the Kinkfest reception, private event.

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Flirts - Kinkfest Reception - to

Fetish

Kink

Festival

Club Night

Flirts - Kinkfest Reception - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 11 Sept 2026

Evening set aside in Flirts for the Kinkfest reception, private event.

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Flirts - Kinkfest Reception

Fetish

Kink

Festival

Club Night

Flirts - Kinkfest Reception

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 12 Sept 2026

Evening set aside in Flirts for the Kinkfest reception, private event.

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 12 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Couples

Singles

Single Men Welcome

Fetish

MILF Mayhem in Flirts

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 13 Sept 2026

Friday is the Milf Mayhem 1st Anniversary at Xtasia.We want to celebrate it with you, cum along and see what the fuss is about. 😉 Don’t forget we have our famous buffet. Single Men £40 Couples £20 Ladies £10

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 14 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Fetish

Social

Club Night

Flirts - Friends, Fun and More Social - to midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 15 Sept 2026

Every 2nd Tuesday in the month: From 8pm to midnight we welcome in members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a monthly Play Social we call FFM (Friends, Fun and More). Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs. Must be club members to attend. Entry price as per evening event.

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. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Couples

Singles

Single Women Welcome

Fetish

. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Thu, 17 Sept 2026 • 00:00

We give you…Youthful Exuberance…An event putting the youth in Youthful! This is a preference night aimed at the under 40s. ALL couples and lady members welcome as usual, but expect a younger crowd.! We promise you a fun filled night with a hot friendly crowd! This night is open to Couples and Single Females Only! Xtasia offers you a nightclub feel with the no pressure naughtiness thrown in…what more can you want? We can promise you a place to dance, socialise and flirt as well as lots of play ro

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. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Couples

Singles

Single Women Welcome

Fetish

. Xtasia - Youthful Exuberance (Couples and Ladies only) to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 18 Sept 2026

We give you…Youthful Exuberance…An event putting the youth in Youthful! This is a preference night aimed at the under 40s. ALL couples and lady members welcome as usual, but expect a younger crowd.! We promise you a fun filled night with a hot friendly crowd! This night is open to Couples and Single Females Only! Xtasia offers you a nightclub feel with the no pressure naughtiness thrown in…what more can you want? We can promise you a place to dance, socialise and flirt as well as lots of play ro

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 27 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Rope

Social

Workshop

Club Night

Midland Peer Rope Workshop

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 28 Sept 2026

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 Progressive Rope Tutorial. Beginner friendly, and for all skill levels. 2pm - Rope Social & Free Tying 2.30pm - Beginners Tutorial 4.30pm - Break 5pm - Intermediate Workshop 7pm - Free Tying 8pm - Hometime Plenty of space available for free tying throughout the session. Drinks and snacks available in the club.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Mon, 28 Sept 2026 • 00:00

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Sing and Swing

Fetish

Club Night

Sing and Swing

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Tue, 29 Sept 2026

Karaoke running in Xtasia Chill Lounge from 9pm to midnight. Included in entry price if attending Xtasia main event, so come along and spin out some tunes with friends. Must be a full member to attend. Open to all Full Members.

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Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Bi

Kink

BDSM

Social

Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Fri, 2 Oct 2026 • 00:00

Welcome to the Birmingham D/s Munch (BDsM) We want to help connect the D/s community in the West Midlands and beyond. We're hoping to create a space to share experiences, learn from each other, and socialise with like-minded kinksters. We'll have a suggested discussion theme at each event, to help start conversation and invite group reflection - we really want to hear how other people do D/s! This is not a play event - you're welcome to express your dynamic through protocol, collars etc, but kee

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Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Bi

Kink

BDSM

Social

Flirts D/s Munch - to Midnight

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 3 Oct 2026

Welcome to the Birmingham D/s Munch (BDsM) We want to help connect the D/s community in the West Midlands and beyond. We're hoping to create a space to share experiences, learn from each other, and socialise with like-minded kinksters. We'll have a suggested discussion theme at each event, to help start conversation and invite group reflection - we really want to hear how other people do D/s! This is not a play event - you're welcome to express your dynamic through protocol, collars etc, but kee

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Shamed

Cuckold

Voyeur

Club Night

Shamed

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 3 Oct 2026 • 00:00

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 SHAMED is the ultimate filthy sexy event experience. whether you love degradation and Humiliation or just voyeuristic dirty sex. We have seen a lot at this event! SHAMED gives you a place to be who you want to be without worrying about those around you. Why? because those around you are there for the same reason. If you like spit play, Watersports, Bukkake, cuckolding, verbal humiliation, group sex, public masturbation drinking tea with a parsnip up your arse or just talking

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Lock and Key - to

Fetish

Dom/Sub

Club Night

Lock and Key - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 3 Oct 2026

On arrival everyone is offered a Lanyard with random numbered Lock on. Later on we will hand out second lanyards with random numbered keys on. All you have to do is find the person who has the matching key number for your lock to earn you both a Free Shot at the bar (or lollypops for the non-drinkers). Lock & Key is a great way to get to know lots of other people really quickly without any awkwardness. Just go around asking to check their numbers, say hi, get chatting and hey, who knows! Exclusi

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Shamed

Cuckold

Voyeur

Club Night

Shamed

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sun, 4 Oct 2026

Time: 14:00 to 20:00 SHAMED is the ultimate filthy sexy event experience. whether you love degradation and Humiliation or just voyeuristic dirty sex. We have seen a lot at this event! SHAMED gives you a place to be who you want to be without worrying about those around you. Why? because those around you are there for the same reason. If you like spit play, Watersports, Bukkake, cuckolding, verbal humiliation, group sex, public masturbation drinking tea with a parsnip up your arse or just talking

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Halloween Party - to

Fetish

Party

Club Night

Halloween Party - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 31 Oct 2026

We’ll be welcoming everyone in to our amazing Halloween Event with a Special ‘Trick or Treat’ free shots and we hope you won’t get too scared when we tell you there might be a few surprises in store throughout the night ;-) Fancy Dress is optional but the best costume will win a Free Xtasia Spa Day for 2 on the night so don’t miss out. Exclusively to those on our Guest List ... Three Lucky Names will Win a £10 Bar Voucher to spend on the night and you get access to the Exclusive pre-event chat g

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Lock and Key - to

Fetish

Dom/Sub

Club Night

Lock and Key - to

Xtasia

West Bromwich • West Midlands

Sat, 7 Nov 2026

On arrival everyone is offered a Lanyard with random numbered Lock on. Later on we will hand out second lanyards with random numbered keys on. All you have to do is find the person who has the matching key number for your lock to earn you both a Free Shot at the bar (or lollypops for the non-drinkers). Lock & Key is a great way to get to know lots of other people really quickly without any awkwardness. Just go around asking to check their numbers, say hi, get chatting and hey, who knows! Exclusi

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